So, are you saying that he actually put the hose in the window while he was in the company of his friends???????
I just can't help but wonder if it was an actual attempt or an attention show. Most people that attempt that--don't do it with others around.
I ditto the others above. The road to recovery is often a long one for those that need rehabilitation. Are you prepared to wait it out and go through the whole support thing to validate that you care? You will be challenged on that if he asks' you to participate in his process. Or will you tell him that you will be watching from a distance? Just wondering.
My, the things we go through for our A loved ones..............
God bless you in your dealings---do what you feel to do in your heart without the pressures and any guilt. Can he kick the bad news friends willingly. My AH said he did and was---but never did. Never stopped using either....he is now in prison...with a 10 year sentence........
2Sunshine