Originally Posted by
xflip227x 
I plan on confronting her today concerning the stolen jewelry from my home; which she lied about 'not taking' in the first place as well as her lying about the other guy.
And by doing so, you intend to achive what?
You/your family have been robbed. Is there any reason why the Police have not been contacted? It is their job to confront, if they have reasonable grounds to do so.
Most of us have used confrontation to attempt to control someone else. How about you?
Where exactly does being lied to and stolen from fit into this relationship? I do not associate with thiefs and liars and harbor no fantasy that I am poweful enough to change them.