Originally Posted by
BklynGrl 
I guess that's someplace to start.
How does it go? QUESTION:
How do you eat an elephant? ANSWER:
One bite at a time.
Whenever I get confused and frustrated it helps me to sit quietly and just think, "What is important to me?" and "What are my personal values?" That helps me to proceed in my own best interest (because no one else is really going to).
You can do this.