SoTiredOfIt,
Thanks for the story, I have heard many like it, that ppl stay and then finaly come to thier senses and find somone who is SO much more suitable.
I think im just a glutton for punishment. I do love him, and we have had so many nice times together, but I just dont know....I feel the need to try. I just cant give up on him or us yet....
I will give it an honest shot.
I am off to the book store at lunch to buy and read
"Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft" at work today....