(((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))
You might want to check out a book called "Getting Them Sober"
You can find excerpts on the web.
It's isn't going to work for long with you being his babysitter.
He will get nasty about that and use it as an excuse to use.
I know that isn't comforting or what you want to hear, and I am sorry that is what I feel like I must tell you, I wish you weren't in this situation getting your heart broke.
Let me think for a couple of minutes, k?
I'll check back.
Have you read the sticky posts at the top of this forum?