Originally Posted by
joey8262 
try and talk to him and persuade him to speak to someone outside-it can't do any harm and might save their marriage.
Why is it HER responsibility to talk to *him*to try to get him to talk to someone else and save their marriage? He is obviously not very interested in his family at the moment.
IMO, this calls for "hands off the addict" and letting him find his recovery himself.