Thanks to all of you for your concern.
I've spoken with the young man twice today and he's doing better today. He's beginning to understand that it's the booze that has caused all these problems for him and that he has a chance to turn his life around if he stays focused on recovery first. I've also suggested he contact a counselor I know, and he assured me he would call him tomorrow to set an appointment.
We're meeting tonight for another meeting, his friend is dropping him off, and afterwards we're going for coffee. I think the crisis is over for now and will diligently stay connected to ensure this guy gets the help he needs.
After all this stress, I think coffee and pie will be a nice change tonight.
Thanks for your support.