I dunno..would seeing him inpatient scare the young one? It might.
What do you want, independent of what he wants?
I would say that the first week is kind of tough.
Do you actually want to drive to the city to do that?
And probably they would have to be accompanied by an adult.
You'd likely all have to show id, they hold your purse, someplaces ask you and the kids to empty the pockets and etc.
meh, I would have to say that I would need time to think about it.
It is not all about him and it's not all about his recovery.
You all have a normal life to maintain.