I have a very wise friend such as the one you have, and it's because of her, I was able to talk out how I changed as well.
We change for others, even when they are not addicts. It's just something we do.
Now is the time for you, and only you. To take the steps you always wanted to
I've been 2 1/2 months out of my relationship and I've taken a few steps I always wanted to take. It's not the ex's fault I didn't take them, but the pain caused from the break up, forced me to take a hard look
You're doing GREAT!