Thanks- but in honesty, you're seeing the tail end of a year of turmoil. My realization of xabf's issue with alcohol was the proverbial straw that broke the camel, but what really gets me is that the associated behaviors that go along with it- the broken promises, the fighting, the interrogations were present for a while, and I always took him back. This just kills me, and I'm trying to figure out why I put up with it and why I believed him. THAT is the codie part, I think, for me.
