Interesting posts. I was thinking about the tension we've had in the house and my feelings of resentment and anger. I think the resentment is tied to the fact that I don't feel like my feelings have been validated. I'm trying to rationalize the fact that my relationship as I've known it has turned completely upside down and she's pretending that it never happened.
I wonder if there's a way for us to just agree to disagree. I think she has a drinking problem - she does not. Even if she disagrees with the premise I would feel much better if I knew she had some compassion for what I'm going through.