"You see, they can't get away from themselves...ever. They are sentenced to live with themselves forever......what a horrible sentence that is."
Jadmack-that is awesome. No doubt for me right now, I am overwhelmed. Overwhelmed with anger; for many reasons (why didn't I leave sooner, blah, blah, blah). It's very noisy in my head right now. So, all of your comments are so very helpful at the moment. I also have to remind myself (perhaps some of you who are already done-with decree in hand) that I hired an attorney for a reason-and I am not the expert in the law. I am a bright, educated professional-but I hired someone-and I need to give it up and over to her and pipe up when my "gut" tells me to.
I am in CPM ("constant prayer mode")...it's the only way I can keep from melting down!