You all get a huge AMEN! I know...I need to be reminded of all of this right now; this minute. NOT because I want him back, but to soothe myself when that child says "ya, but...". There is no fairness with an out of control person that has anger problems going way back-none. So, yes, he will leave this relationship definitely richer in dollar than before, but being him-is much more painful. Do I have issues? You betcha-and because I have looked them straight in the face-I am who I am now. Not the same person I was (thankfully) more than 2 years ago. I have my health, my son, my spotted dogs (dalmations), a great career and people who WANT to be with me.
Trying to exhale and let all that toxic stuff GO. And with that...I am headed to an extended hot yoga class!