Originally Posted by
evenkeel 
I suggested going there after we all fell asleep (probably a mistake). She told me no, she was going to stay home.
You stated she could go after you and the children went to sleep.
You and the children went to sleep.
She changed her mind about staying home.
She went to the bar.
Is she allowed to change her mind?
Is she allowed to be with her friends?
Do you resent her for going or
Do you resent your words of telling her it was okay when it was not okay?