LOL
Well, you see...I have some family members who always know what I should do and some who want to make a step by step plan for me...according to their determination of what's best and exactly how I should do it and then want to supervise me.
It's belittling.
And no one is always going to agree with my decisions and some of them have been mistakes. Some of them have been big mistakes and foreseeable, if I am honest.
But some of the rather unorthodox things I have chosen are also some of the best, most cherished decisions and adventures I have undertaken.
There's an old spanish proverb "Take what you like, said God, and pay for it."