It's not my place...
to know what any one else should do!
There are people in my life whose path is headed towards disaster from what I can see to the best of my knowledge.
I can tell them..when I went down that road..this is what I saw and what happened and it hurt me and endangered me.
But I have lived my whole life with people telling me what to do..and I really don't like talking to those people much anymore and I cut them off when they start in on it.
Even when I am wrong....
I hope I am better at listening wisely..but if I still choose to find out for myself...then I have that right and I will be the one to deal with the consequences.
So, I reserve the right to be wrong. LOL