Originally Posted by
pinkrose77 
I feel like because of my resentments towards him about lying to me for so long, I wasn't the best girlfriend I could have been. That is my own fault for not dealing with my emotions directly.
I think I understand what you mean about being angry and not being the best g.friend to him. But when you are being lied to, when you are being disrespected, when you are being mistreated, of course you're going to be angry. And eventually, resentful. That is not a flaw; it is human.
Good for you for being willing to accept responsibility for your part, but I hope you're not giving him a pass for his bad behavior