Hi, I am a wife of a recovering alcoholic who was sober for 1 1/2 years and recently relapsed back in august and has been handling it well but still not 100% there. He has had 3 bad days since then, today being one of them. I wondered where he was after work and called him and could tell he was drinking and told him I was picking him up. It's not him I was concerned about, it was the other people on the road if he decided to drive home. The thing is we have a baby and 5 year old daughter that witnessed it today. I told her he wasn't feeling well. He is a closet alcoholic who hides it and lies about it. He's not violent or mean, but he's definitely off the wall after he drinks. Any thoughts?