Please accept my condolences.
If I may, can I share a song?
A part goes like this:
"niņa, cuando yo muera
no llores sobre mi tumba,
porque si tu lloras muero
en cambio si tu me cantas
yo siempre vivo, yo nunca muero"
And it means:
"Girl, when I die
do not cry over my tomb
because if you cry I die
but if you sing
I always live, I never die"
Your post made me remember this song. What a great idea to celebrate her life.