Protect your children; they come first and foremost. So sorry you are going through this. I've been there. I had to kick mine out when I was 4 months pregnant. when you know better you do better. Now you know. Please keep coming back here. I found a lot of support in all kind of ways. I really don't know what to say other than YOU have to seek help. If I were you I would get a counsler to speak to as soon as possible. Also, the car situation is a bit scary. I hope she isn't driving around drunk. I will pray for all of you. Good luck.