I can only speak for myself and my own motivations, not this particular woman's or anyone else's. Though I have learned, time and again, that it is usually best for me and everyone involved with me to expect the best possible motivations in others. I do not want to spend the rest of my life paranoid, guessing, trying to figure out what someone is doing, my back up, angry and pi$$ed off all the time that someone is trying to do something to me, or that their actions say something about me. When I am this way, I have no peace or serenity. You choose your own reality.