Steppingup, Hmm strange name for your post. Do you feel like your "stepping up" sounds to me like your looking the other way. You say you have children that witness her drunk???????? I think you actually need to talk with her when she is sober and try and seek help for yourself and children. They should be inspiration for you to STEPUP
This message is from my heart and not meant to hurt you. I have been in your shoes. MY EXAB father of my baby....well, that story is too long. Lets just say I put my baby before him; maybe you should think about your children first. good luck. I will pray