Lol, the last thing I wanted was anyone coming near me, in fact I made a concentrated effort to have my body language reflect that. It never worked, damn AA people were always so friendly to me:-) They broke me down and took me along.
I completely concur with previous posters in that perception of reality and reality is not always what it seems. I hate to admit it but I tend to read into all kinds of things and make something from nothing. But there are snobby groups out there, in my experience they are the exception and not the rule.