Okay i'm not sure i totally get it . Me and my addict boyfriend have alot of arguments over me finding out he gets to know girls ,be flirty with them. Each time i find out about something i'm so hurt,jelous and mad over it,on the other hand he talks his way out of it. Embarassed to admit but i always made excuses for him though there were things i couldnt accept but made myself to accept and tolerate mainly because of his drug problem,i thought if he would quit he wouldnt do things to hurt me so i made myself accept the flirting issues and focused on him recovering!! anway my question is, if i chose to not continue this relationship because of these reasons, considered a way for him to face the consequences of his actions and take responsibilty for it??!