Amy regardless of what happened and what your situation is, I am very proud of you, because it sounds to me like you are simply being "the bigger person". People who think it through, weigh the consequences, and act accordingly are, in my opinion, happier in their overall lives. They are able to let go of the negative energy it takes to be mad, and act revengeful. That negative energy takes more out of people than w realize. You are a wonderful, strong woman, and I applaud you for getting on with your life.