Originally Posted by
queenteree 
The order says he cannot harrass, intimidate or threaten me in any way,
It might be better to call the police when he shows up rather than a cab. Just sayin.......
Also, regarding the life insurance. Wasn't the IRA the previous reason you didn't want to divorce him? Or was it the equity in the house? Now it's the life insurance? How have the previous money reasons panned out? What makes you think he will just up and die and you will get a big check? What if he hangs on for months/years and racks up huge bills above and beyond what insurance will pay? What then?
What I've learned is that my best decisions come from the here and now reality of the situation. Not the what if, maybes of the future. Nobody knows what
will happen, but if you base your choices on what
is happening, you really can't go wrong.
My two cents,
L