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Old 09-22-2010, 12:34 PM
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In my recovery I was told that the steps are in order for a reason, and that the preparation and action that I take in the early steps builds toward success of subsequent ones. There's a difference between talking to someone (5-Integrity--speaking the truth about myself) and making amends (9-Discipline--going to any lengths to do the next right thing). The difference is the steps in between, and developing the willingness, humility, love and sense of justice to DO the amends.

As I understand the steps, they're designed to find a power bigger than me so that I may forgive others and myself, clear away the wreckage of the past by any means necessary, and move forward with a spiritual awakening that enables me to walk free from fear (if I do the work) one day at a time.

Good for you for working towards it and finding it necessary to take a (drink) shortcut. Keep in mind that the steps are in order for a reason...
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