Daybreak - 2 things:
1) If you go no contact now, he will not have you to spit on and will have only himself to look at.
2) If you have not already done so, please do yourself a huge favor and read the book
Why Does He Do That? It's an awesome book that explains the behaviors and thoughts of "angry and controlling" men. It also gives you some insight into who can be helped and who can't....and what has to happen to make things better. You will understand so much more about him and will be better able to make your decisions with ALL the information.
God Bless You.