Listen to your inner voice. If that voice is telling you no contact, then go no contact.
My experience is that I wanted my now xah to live seperate from us for 6mos after getting out of rehab. If he was sober at 6mos I would re-evaluate. I have a long history of not even recongnizing much less hearing or listening to my inner voice. This time it was screaming. In the end my xah basically refused and I did not uphold that boundary. The result was untold heartache and chaos. I regret not listening and honoring my inner voice at that time. Perhaps it was a lesson because I didn't get 'inner voice' before, but it was a hard one.
Wishing you well. I know this is an extremely difficult road you are on right now.