Our agreement with our son was to take the 44 day rehab program after his 1 week detox. He chose to leave at 22 days, we have no power to make him stay. He chose to not attend meetings. We had hoped he would go to half way house after rehab and then and only then we could help him help himself. He was not back probably 3 days, is using and selling. I think he went to rehab for us and not him. I am not sure where he is living and his whole life plan is totally up to him. We are done, wont even get into what we have been through, cant help someone who doesnt want it. It sucks to be a mom sometimes. Good luck, will be thinking about you.