Hello - I just joined today after a month of being separated from AH. I have to agree with Gearhead - the thing that tore me up most was the face to face lying and shattering of trust that it brought. Also related to the lying was the fact that, even though I am a professional with a degree and decent intelligence, he actually must have thought I was stupid enough to believe his lies! I can only come to terms with that by assuming that he actually believes his own lies.