Don't beat yourself up...you had no way of knowing what would happen with this guy, and you've not been involved w/AA before so you couldn't have known what to expect. Just chalk it up to a learning experience and get to that first meeting on your own...and once you get there, get some phone numbers and names of other WOMEN in the meeting.
Maybe you could just return Romeo's book to his doorstep or mailbox w/o having to see him again? Keep us posted..
:ghug3