No, I beg to differ, I was detached. I even was dating somebody else (still see him actually). I'll gather by your comment that addicts NEVER CHANGE and when the next person writes in and asks, we should all just answer with a resounding NO. Like I said, I'm not looking for the past and don't want a relationship however I still care about him. Yes, bizarre he drinks sometimes I get that but it's his fight, not mine, and it will be for the rest of his life. All I am saying is that it's been a year and I still care like I just met him yesterday. God tells us to forgive, I can do that, just not forget. I have talked to him about EVERYTHING I have vented to this board. Believe me, he's not getting my friendship easily.