we've been detached for almost a year! Just started talking again about a month ago. We were in court because I felt he needed to face some consequences for his actions. We've talked about that and he understands. (Not like I needed justification) It's nice to see him doing well. I can't help thinking about the one post about: what do you get when a horse thief stops drinking? a sober horse thief! I'm not looking for the past, I don't want a relationship but I can't lie, I still care about him alot! I'm also proud of his accomplishments and hope he does well. I thought a year would make him go away but when I saw him..................... wtf?