Originally Posted by
Troubledsister 
ok. so send a gift to nephew. But send bday email to brother? He's so narcissistic he'll probably view that as an apology from me for leaving the beach house. But I dont know if I should blow it off.
Ideas???
This isn't about him...who cares what he views it as.....it's never about any of them as far as I'm concerned. At least that's how I try to look at things....It's about you doing what you feel is right or just plain old because it's something you want to do.