I am sorry for what you are going through. I hope you stick with sobriety and make it work.
I think you should tell him. If you don't, your guilt with probably force you back to drinking. You will try to drown the pain and guilt you have towards yourself. If you truly want a life of sobriety it is time to air your dirty laundry and start the cleaning up process. We make amends in sobriety for all the crap we did while drinking. It is the only way to truly heal ourselves.
Again, Stay with us. And congrats on making the decision to get/stay sober.
