Originally Posted by
phlegmatic 
As far as my life goes, all I'm thinking about right now is how I'm going to pay the bills. I know that shouldn't be top priority, but that is reality--I can't pay all the bills on my own, even when I cut out his stuff. So we'll see how that goes..
YOU CAN DO THIS!!.. Paying the bills alone was my biggest fear.. when he left I had $500 to my name, a week before the rent was due, along with the rest of the bills. I really don't know how.. but... (ok, I do know how.. my HP!!) I am in my 3rd year of paying the bills BY MYSELF! (so proud of myself) and I am the ONLY one in my family who has every bill to ZERO every month.. and I make the LEAST amount of money.. I was horrible at this bill paying, but the only option was... MAKE IT WORK!..
My xabf did the same thing your ah did/does.. he came up missing.. and would be gone for weeks.. wouldn't answer the phone.. and a whole slew of things. He would do this in a pattern of every 3 months.. to the day.. and be gone between 1-6 weeks at a time. Now, every 3 months to the day... he calls me.. or writes.. wanting to come home.. something I can't let happen..
YOU can.. you can... you CAN.. do this!.. Good luck..
