I have not relapsed. Day 48 here on my first and only try. Although I am not saying I think it will be effortless, I am confident that I will continue to stay sober going forward. I know exactly how furious I would be with myself if I took another drink, and knowing that is what has kept me from doing it on the very rare occasions so far when I've been tempted. For the most part, the desire is gone anyway.
If my confidence comes off as smugness, I am sorry, but it is not meant that way. It has nothing to do with anyone else; everyone's journey is personal.