some things I have learned in the amends process.
1. Never presume to know exactly how much we have harmed anyone.
2. Let go of any scripts we may have as to what the amend should look like or what the result should be.
3. God does not wear a watch, Commit, take action and he shows up.
4. This is not about us anymore, if our motive is to get free or relief, we are off track, these qualities are natural bi-products of following the spiritual path of selflessness.
5. The most overlooked word in the 12 steps is ALL, as in made direct amends to them ALL.