L2L - sometimes it is a problem and sometimes it is just recognizing that when we connect with someone - it is forever on some level. Doesn't mean it has to be anything more than it is at a given moment.
Connections are biological and spiritual. We can end how much time we spend together, how will we interact, how much distance we will permit - but it is there. Obviously we make some connections that don't serve us well and a correction is needed but the connection is never severed - it is only corrected.
IDK if that makes any sense - it is a belief I have and usually serves me well. For some reason I am obviously not figuring this one out so well.