L2L- I understood that. My husband has made it clear that feelings don't change - and he is done with the relationship b/c despite the fact that we love each other it is not enough to make it work. DUH! when did alcohol AND relationships work together?! But he doesn't see that !
I find it irritating and aggravating and just plain stupid at times! The more I learn about his alcoholism, the more I understand that he just doesn't have any control. I find it very sad, my kids find it confusing, and others just plain don't want to hear it. Glad I can talk here.