Thanks GingerM, this helps. essentially affirms the direction we are going in, and I will cut down on the discussions to 1x a week, and see if I can get her sessions stepped up to once a week rather than every other. I've been in 2 of her sessions, and while they have been good, the councelor noted next time she would see her by herself.
We are just looking to take 1 day at a time together.