yes, it is amazing where we can find the strength as parents to let them go, in the face of the dark places their using takes them. my daughter has gone to some really dark places with her using and that house I picked her up at that day was one of them...
I agree with you, Keepinon.... while I eventually figured out my boundaries with her, I always let her know that I loved her and believed in her, but that I refused to be dragged along with her...I had to choose me, my serenity, and my life...that was important for her to see..and I know it made a difference...