Originally Posted by
bballdad 
My sponsor had me make 3 lists
1-ones nearest me like family
2-ones which took a little effort to find and make
3-and the ones I may not or I would not ever be able to make direct f2f amends like strangers,people who had passed away etc
Bob Darrel does a Big Book workshop titled "Overcoming the Spiritual Malady".
He has his sponcees make 4 lists;
1. Those we want to make amends and know where they are
2. Those we want to make amends to but don't know where they are.
3. Those we don't want to make amends to but know where they are.
4. Those we don't want to make amends to and don't know where they are.