Hmm....
I decided to get sober and joined AA.
I told my social circle ...all excessive drinkers at best.
I truned down all invitations
I also declared my apartment was now a no drinking zone.
This cleared my life and allowed me time to work on mysefl
I found an AA group of mostly singles.....
We did all sorts of interesting things outside of meetings...
and we stayed sober.together.
AA people are fun loving non drinkers...after all..
many of us were formally the "party" crowd.
I re located and now....in another group...
they do a lot of outdoor activities.
This weekend was "Camping in the mountains"
for 15 plus kids.
I did not want to go...ccamping is not my deal.
Instead....I attended a noon meeting...4 of us
went for lunch and shopping after.
One thing about AA....I've never been lonely
or board.