You may feel different about certain steps your worried about once you have completed the ones prior.......well that was my experience.
I thought long and hard for a way round nine way before i was any where near it......it involved my x wife and she was to blame right..
by the time i got to 9 it was very clear whom was to blame..lol.........
good luck and relax............what have you got to lose apart from stuff that keeps us nailed in the problem.
im looking forward to your future posts...................shaun.