Originally Posted by LexieCat

Honestly, that's part of why I don't care for the women's meetings I've gone to. It all feels way too "sisterly" for me (and I never had a sister, so I'm not all that comfy with that kind of setting).

I go to the mixed meetings and hang out with and talk to everybody--the long-haired tattooed bikers, the women with office jobs, the tradesmen, the stay-at-home moms. It takes me a long time to cozy up to people, and I don't like being pushed to get more personal with people before I'm ready to.