Maybe they will..maybe they need to, maybe when you put it back together it will be healthier for everyone. Sometimes you have to tear it all down and rebuild it,, maybe that's what your AD is doing..if Dad has been controlling, maybe she's taking charge. She WILL want to talk to you, but she probably was hoping for a better reaction to the news of her choice. Sounds like Dad and her are gonna have to work it out, didn't really have much to do w/ you, you accepted her decision. My AD's 1st rehab was much more emotional than this time. We had to hear some really hard stuff. You will get through this and be fine.