Each AlAnon meeting is different. Each one has its own "atmosphere" or "flavor." As with anything, try a few different meetings until you find one where you feel the best when you go. You do not have to do or say ANYTHING until you are ready. They will understand completely. Just remember, everyone there has likely felt what you are feeling, had the same questions, issues and concerns.
It is so good that you are going. Makes me smile. I am glad for you.
