Originally Posted by
phineas 
Thanks everyone!
I read some wise words from y'all (I've been living in the South for too long).
I will keep going to Alanon and see how things go. There's an all-men group tonight I want to go to.
I've found that the "man hug" is an acquired taste.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote
BTW, I use God, cause I'm too lazy to explain what I believe. Silkspin did a good job though.